Yet another moment of reflection...i stumped across a diary written by a daughter whose father has passed on...
Reading through the diary, i thought the chapter on Closure was meaningful..to the grieving...the dying...the living...
How often in times do we carry the baggages of yesterday and move on to today? How many unhappy or painful moments do we have in life that we do not wish to revisit?
Closure requires courage and willingness from both parties...sometimes its really hard to make the first step forward as revisiting these unhappy moments would means experiencing such pain and agony all over again..and also, it takes 2 hand to clap..to some, they might feel that they have already moved on in life and that there is not a need...also the whole idea of closure was not important to them...
For those that needs closure, is there a need to carry such baggages for so many years and wait till we are nearing our deathbed to start asking for some form of closures like forgiveness?
While we are all so caught up in the daily activities of life, maybe it would be spend a moment or two for some silent reflection??
From my previous fb entries..
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