Today was super inspirational!
It takes a real knock to wake me up!
Before anyone of us can chase after our dream, it is important to ensure we can keep a balanced lifestyle.
All the unhealthy activities that we can treating our body will only lead to an explosion in time to come. They may be hanging on thin line!
I was surprised I would be this emotional during the chat! I think it caught dear and c.y aback! C.y mentioned that the fact that I could be this emotional must be cause I am still very stressed.
I am going to give myself 4months and throw away the baggage I am carrying! A smart person must be a disciplined person!
Thanks dr c.y!
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Thursday, May 27, 2010
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Baby Cedric
Today we visited baby Cedric and mummy qiuxia!
Baby Cedric is so cute!
He has definitely grown a lot since I last saw him!
Best part of the visit is yhat he allows us to carry him!
We were trying our best to be careful with him as he seems fragile!
May baby Cedric grow up to be a fine gentleman! Best wishes to dehao and qiuxia!
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Baby Cedric is so cute!
He has definitely grown a lot since I last saw him!
Best part of the visit is yhat he allows us to carry him!
We were trying our best to be careful with him as he seems fragile!
May baby Cedric grow up to be a fine gentleman! Best wishes to dehao and qiuxia!
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Wednesday, May 19, 2010
感恩！
By a twist of events, I get to hear the insights of the life of the P paxs.
1) Why is it that 2 person of similar ethnic grp, born of different nationality, both inexperience to this industry but doing the same job scope be paid differently?
This was the question I got from B today.
I don't have an answer. The only one I could think of is "This is life. It's unfair."
B went on to say "Doesn't we both have the same blood that flows within us?
Why should nationality be the dividing factor?"
This is just life. Isn't it? If it's fair, then it's not life. But such unfairness. It hurts.
2) When was the last time u got a new clothing? Or accessories?
For B, it was way before he came over.
He can't afford it. It's a luxury item to him. To him, nothing matters more than being able to save the money so he can pay to the middleman.
When was the last time u paused to think of your purchases? Did u even blink a lid?
*ouch* the heart crys out silently at the plight they are facing.
Life is really unfair. Butt life has treat me fairly well thus far. Tonight, I am truly graTeful for all I am having now.
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1) Why is it that 2 person of similar ethnic grp, born of different nationality, both inexperience to this industry but doing the same job scope be paid differently?
This was the question I got from B today.
I don't have an answer. The only one I could think of is "This is life. It's unfair."
B went on to say "Doesn't we both have the same blood that flows within us?
Why should nationality be the dividing factor?"
This is just life. Isn't it? If it's fair, then it's not life. But such unfairness. It hurts.
2) When was the last time u got a new clothing? Or accessories?
For B, it was way before he came over.
He can't afford it. It's a luxury item to him. To him, nothing matters more than being able to save the money so he can pay to the middleman.
When was the last time u paused to think of your purchases? Did u even blink a lid?
*ouch* the heart crys out silently at the plight they are facing.
Life is really unfair. Butt life has treat me fairly well thus far. Tonight, I am truly graTeful for all I am having now.
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Tuesday, May 11, 2010
dO u haF tHe reCeipe 4 haPpy maRRiage?
Credits to www.marriagecentral.sg
INGREDIENTS:
~Start with a big bowl of TRUST (yes!)
~Pour in a cupful of PATIENCE (hmm...i am not a patient person..learning in progress)
~Add a dash of FORGIVENESS (talk about forgiveness for a woman!!!)
~Stir in a spoonful of KINDNESS (mid-road)
~Sprinkle a palmful of ENCOURAGEMENT (yes!)
~Sweeten with plenty of COUPLE TIME (no! its everyday work work work and work)
~Throw in some slice of APPRECIATION (for the things he done...yesh!)
~Spice things up with lots of SURPRISES (long overdue)
~Top it all with a generous serving of PASSION (when work takes the toil on us...)
INGREDIENTS:
~Start with a big bowl of TRUST (yes!)
~Pour in a cupful of PATIENCE (hmm...i am not a patient person..learning in progress)
~Add a dash of FORGIVENESS (talk about forgiveness for a woman!!!)
~Stir in a spoonful of KINDNESS (mid-road)
~Sprinkle a palmful of ENCOURAGEMENT (yes!)
~Sweeten with plenty of COUPLE TIME (no! its everyday work work work and work)
~Throw in some slice of APPRECIATION (for the things he done...yesh!)
~Spice things up with lots of SURPRISES (long overdue)
~Top it all with a generous serving of PASSION (when work takes the toil on us...)
ranDom..
We had a quarrel.
The challenges present in our existing lifestyle proves to be overwhelming at times.
I remember in my uni-days that there is a myth of couples who are co-working on FYP project together.
They will never make it through uni graduations as a couple.
We broke that myth.
Now, we are working in the same company. This is so much tougher.
There are the challenges involved in working together.
Opinions might differ, disagreements are inevitable, feelings get hurts, pride too.
When such occasion happens, what happen?
Surely marriage is more than a relationship between 2 persons.
More than the spouses' feeling and excellent communication skills towards one another.
So what does it takes to build a good marriage?
I am still searching.
The challenges present in our existing lifestyle proves to be overwhelming at times.
I remember in my uni-days that there is a myth of couples who are co-working on FYP project together.
They will never make it through uni graduations as a couple.
We broke that myth.
Now, we are working in the same company. This is so much tougher.
There are the challenges involved in working together.
Opinions might differ, disagreements are inevitable, feelings get hurts, pride too.
When such occasion happens, what happen?
Surely marriage is more than a relationship between 2 persons.
More than the spouses' feeling and excellent communication skills towards one another.
So what does it takes to build a good marriage?
I am still searching.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
haPpy mOtHers' dAy!
1st sunday of may!
It's the much anticipated "Mothers' Day".
Today, i celebrated Mothers' Day with my own mummy.
As korkor went fishing and we had no idea when he is coming back, we couldnt plan our itinerary!
Mummy needs to help kor with alot of stuffs when he is back, this is despite the fact that kor is already 30!
I guess its only natural for parents to see their children as little ones that needs constant tender loving care and attention. I am not a mummy myself yet and so probably i cant fully comprehend why she is as such. But i believe, no matter what, mummy always hold me and korkor deep in her heart.
I bought a bouquet of carnation for mummy this year! It was purple, her favourite color! There were 6 stalks all together! I know flower is not her favourite, but i still like giving her flowers! And yes, she was so delighted when i present the bouquet of carnation to her.
Dinner was at Lao Beijing, Novena Square.
We opted for the set dinner as it is faster that way.
On the way there, mummy wasnt feeling too well as she has drank some tea before leaving home. This probably upsets her stomach. Lucky she recovered and was feeling fine by dinner time.
I was so thankful of this.
I just love how i can always turn back to being a little girl when i am with my parents.
To both my daddy and mummy, i am so thankful for their love.
I guess i have learn to treasure them more after getting married.
Maybe i have grown up and when i am not living with them, i started to remember and miss those things that they have always done for me when i was still living with them. It is always these little things that when you have, you ignore and when you don't have, you miss them.
Especially for my mummy, a big thank you for everything you have done for me since i was born.
~ You gave up your job to take care of kor and me.
~ Your constant effort to make sure we have home cooked meals since young. I am sorry i used to be so picky about food and secretly throw away your food when you were not around. Still, i really dont like the "dao kua ber". =p
~ Your 愛心 noodle that you specially prepared for my lunch whenever i was going for exams.
~ Even thou you were not highly educated, your tireless effort in reading and understanding our textbook so that you can guide us along our course when we were in primary school.
~Your tender loving care showered on each and every moment of our life since young. Even until now when i am married.
~Your constant nagging to make sure i fulfill my role well of a wife and daughter-in-law.
~ The list is never ending.
On this day, my dearest mummy, Happy Mothers' Day!
If ever, i will only love you more than ever. Thank you for being so selfless and being my mummy!
It's the much anticipated "Mothers' Day".
Today, i celebrated Mothers' Day with my own mummy.
As korkor went fishing and we had no idea when he is coming back, we couldnt plan our itinerary!
Mummy needs to help kor with alot of stuffs when he is back, this is despite the fact that kor is already 30!
I guess its only natural for parents to see their children as little ones that needs constant tender loving care and attention. I am not a mummy myself yet and so probably i cant fully comprehend why she is as such. But i believe, no matter what, mummy always hold me and korkor deep in her heart.
I bought a bouquet of carnation for mummy this year! It was purple, her favourite color! There were 6 stalks all together! I know flower is not her favourite, but i still like giving her flowers! And yes, she was so delighted when i present the bouquet of carnation to her.
Dinner was at Lao Beijing, Novena Square.
We opted for the set dinner as it is faster that way.
On the way there, mummy wasnt feeling too well as she has drank some tea before leaving home. This probably upsets her stomach. Lucky she recovered and was feeling fine by dinner time.
I was so thankful of this.
I just love how i can always turn back to being a little girl when i am with my parents.
To both my daddy and mummy, i am so thankful for their love.
I guess i have learn to treasure them more after getting married.
Maybe i have grown up and when i am not living with them, i started to remember and miss those things that they have always done for me when i was still living with them. It is always these little things that when you have, you ignore and when you don't have, you miss them.
Especially for my mummy, a big thank you for everything you have done for me since i was born.
~ You gave up your job to take care of kor and me.
~ Your constant effort to make sure we have home cooked meals since young. I am sorry i used to be so picky about food and secretly throw away your food when you were not around. Still, i really dont like the "dao kua ber". =p
~ Your 愛心 noodle that you specially prepared for my lunch whenever i was going for exams.
~ Even thou you were not highly educated, your tireless effort in reading and understanding our textbook so that you can guide us along our course when we were in primary school.
~Your tender loving care showered on each and every moment of our life since young. Even until now when i am married.
~Your constant nagging to make sure i fulfill my role well of a wife and daughter-in-law.
~ The list is never ending.
On this day, my dearest mummy, Happy Mothers' Day!
If ever, i will only love you more than ever. Thank you for being so selfless and being my mummy!
Friday, May 7, 2010
忙。。。盲。。。茫。。。
這是一編我從網上讀到。。
我們每天都在忙忙忙，像個陀螺一樣不停的轉， 到底是為了什麼？為什麼而忙？
忙。。。盲。。。 茫。。。
每天都不停的 “忙碌” ， 久了便對生活週遭的事也“盲目”了。
看不見身旁人事物的付出，把他們的付出當成理所當然，一切變成“茫然”了。
最終不知到底是為了什麼而忙。
你還記得最初的愛，最初的感動嗎？
不管是什麼事。。
都要常常回憶起最初的愛，最初的感動。
人在做事情的時候， 不管怎麼都需要動力， 不然久了變成“茫然”了。
所以，要常常回憶起最初的愛和感動。
這樣我們才能有据需走下去。
Monday, May 3, 2010
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